My why.......


The giveaway has ended.  I want to thank new and existing subscribers to Velvetstyle from the bottom of my heart for all your support and kind words over the past two weeks.

The response has been overwhelming and to see Velvetstyle grow has been extremely motivating and rewarding at the same time.

I guess this brings me to this week’s blog......My Why!!!

Over the past few months I have been asked many times by family, friends, clients and colleagues.  “Why are you doing a blog? It seems to take up so much of your time and you already have a full time job”.

When dad died a part of me also died with him. I was very lost and some days I found it hard to even get out of bed. I do have three beautiful children and a gorgeous husband however a part of me was missing.



Why I started writing.......

I was having counselling to help with the loss of dad but it wasn’t really helping. In the end putting pen to paper gave me a sense of relief and purpose in life. It was my escape from the real world and somewhere I could talk about my memories the good, bad and happy times.

Writing has become my “me time”.  I find myself writing every spare minute I get.  Even at night when I can’t sleep I write.  Writing has helped me get through one of the toughest times in my life and has also taught me so much about myself that I didn’t really know.

My blogging time is now when I escape, relax and do something that is just for me.

Along the way I am meeting some incredible people who have now become my mentors and friends,  I am learning so much. It has made me move out of my comfort zone and do things I never thought I could do.

Blogging is somewhere I am able to heal and find “me” again.

Denai xx